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Yes, I did. The point is that a person doesn't have to exactly say "I've changed my mind" in order for another person to know that they changed their mind. You know that and you know I was answering your question, just like this boy knew the girl was telling him to stop.

So, not only do men have to be able to determine whether no means "persuade me", but they have to rely upon our body language as well? So, if I SAY no, but rub my naked body all over him, should I feel raped if he goes ahead?

Going ahead would be wrong, but it would also be eminently understandable.

So, not only do men have to be able to determine whether no means "persuade me", but they have to rely upon our body language as well?

Ummm, pushing them away should be a clue....so yes.

So, if I SAY no, but rub my naked body all over him, should I feel raped if he goes ahead?

You most certainly should and you would. I don't care if you ran out into the street naked, nobody has the right to violate your body.

Going ahead would be wrong, but it would also be eminently understandable.

If you really feel this way, all I can say is....you have issues, Dianna.