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To: SarahW
"NO" is "no". "No" is always "no". If they say "no" it means a thousand times "no." "No" plus "no", equals "no", all "no's" lead to "no","no","no."

But YES doesn't always equal yes? And now we are just supposed to take a womens word that in the privacy of the bedroom Yes became NO?
Bottom line. Women if you want to avoid this situation don't put yourself in the position for it to happen. It's YOUR responsibility. Don't be in the back seat, don't be in his house, don't go to his hotel room or dorm room, don't be in the bedroom at a party because that implies YES in any rational world.
143 posted on 01/07/2003 8:57:03 AM PST by Kozak
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To: Kozak
So let me get this straight. A woman consents to sex, voluntarily goes to a private place where only the participants are present, they begin to have intercourse, and THEN changes her mind.

Confusing to all people except those who wish to remove any responsibility from women in sexual activities.

But YES doesn't always equal yes? And now we are just supposed to take a womens word that in the privacy of the bedroom Yes became NO?

And she went in their more than once, even after at least one of them admitted he wanted to have sex with her and two guys said "why wont you do stuff?". Like I posted before, I bet she was the type that wanted to be seen as "cool" and thus wouldn't just leave and not give the time of day to those types of guys.

Bottom line. Women if you want to avoid this situation don't put yourself in the position for it to happen. It's YOUR responsibility. Don't be in the back seat, don't be in his house, don't go to his hotel room or dorm room, don't be in the bedroom at a party because that implies YES in any rational world.

I wish everyone could understand this and stop playing sexual games.

148 posted on 01/07/2003 10:40:55 AM PST by FreeTally (If its illegal to drink and drive, why are there parking lots at bars?)
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To: Kozak
Its a woman's prerogative to change her mind.

(and yes, the subtext of the above has always had to do with sex)

"Yes" changes to no when she says no.

Women should avoid situations where they aren't in control. But its NEVER her fault if she says no, and the guy refuses to let her go. That's rape.
154 posted on 01/07/2003 1:02:24 PM PST by SarahW
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