But the current form of Islam will be destroyed. Whether it is by Muslims own hand or the hands of those defending morality is the choice of Muslims alone, which you very lucidly iterated...JFK
Personally, I don't with to reconcile Christianity with the "modern world" To me, religion is supposed to be static. If it's not static then the winds of popular culture will destroy it.
I want the Muslims to respect the lives and religions of others and I don't care if it conflicts with their Koran or not. They are going to have to reconsile that aspect of it, isolate themselves or become martyrs. I think any reasonable person would assert that your right to religion stops when it presents a threat to others.
And they can either go along with this peacefully, as domestic Islam has done.. Or they can have it forced on them, as is about to happen to the Palestinians. I don't care which, but it has to stop.