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Memories of Growing Up in the 40's and 50's (and since, even)
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Posted on 01/04/2003 12:12:42 PM PST by Dakotabound

"Hey Dad," My Son asked the other day, "what was your favorite fast food when you were growing up?"

"We didn't have fast food when I was growing up."

"C'mon, seriously. Where did you eat?"

"We ate at home," I explained. "Your Grandma cooked every day and when your Grandpa got home from work, we all sat down together at the table, and if I didn't like what she put on my plate I had to sit there until I did like it." By this time, my Son was laughing so hard I was afraid he was going to suffer some serious internal damage, so I didn't tell him the part about how I had to get my Father's permission to leave the table.

Here are some other things I would have told him about my childhood if I had figured his system could handle it.

My parents never: wore Levi's, set foot on a golf course, traveled out of the country, flew in a plane or had a credit card. In their later years they had something called a "revolving charge card" but they never actually used it. It was only good at Sears-Roebuck. Or maybe it was Sears and Roebuck. Either way, there is no Roebuck anymore.

My parents never drove me to soccer practice. This was because soccer back then was just for the girls. We actually did walk to school. By the time you were in the 6th grade it was not cool to ride the bus unless you lived more than 4 or 5 miles from the school, even when it was raining or there was ice or snow on the ground.

Outdoor sports consisted of stickball, snowball fights, building forts, making snowmen and sliding down hills on a piece of cardboard. No skate boards, roller blades or trail bikes.

We didn't have a television in our house until I was 12. It was, of course, black and white, but you could buy a piece of special colored plastic to cover the screen. The top third was blue, like the sky, and the bottom third was green, like grass. The middle third was red. It was perfect for programs that had scenes of fire trucks riding across someone's lawn on a sunny day.

I was 13 before I tasted my first pizza. It was a Sam's Pizza at the East end of Fruit Street in Milford. My friend, Steve took me there to try what he called "pizza pie." When I bit into it, I burned the roof of my mouth and the cheese slid off, swung down and plastered itself against my chin. It's still the best pizza I ever had.

Pizzas were not delivered to your house back then, but the milk was. I looked forward to winter because the cream in the milk was on top of the bottle and it would freeze and push the cap off. Of course us kids would get up first to get the milk and eat the frozen cream before our mother could catch us.

I never had a telephone in my room. Actually the only phone in the house was in the hallway and it was on a party line. Before you could make a call, you had to listen in to make sure someone else wasn't already using the line. If the line was not in use an Operator would come on and ask "number please" and you would give her the number you wanted to call.

There was no such thing as a computer or a hand held calculator. We were required to memorize the "times tables." Believe it or not, we were tested each week on our ability to perform mathematics with nothing but a pencil and paper. We took a spelling test every day. There was no such thing as a "social promotion." If you flunked a class, you repeated that grade the following year. Nobody was concerned about your "self esteem." We had to actually do something praiseworthy before we were praised. We learned that you had to earn respect.

All newspapers were delivered by boys and most all boys delivered newspapers. I delivered the "Milford Daily News" six days a week. It cost 7 cents a paper, of which I got to keep 2 cents. On Saturday, I had to collect the 42 cents from my customers. My favorite customers were the ones who gave me 50 cents and told me to keep the change. My least favorite customers were the ones who seemed to never be home on collection day.

Movie stars kissed with their mouths shut on screen. Touching someone else's tongue with yours was called French kissing and they just didn't do that in the movies back then. I had no idea what they did in French movies. French movies were considered dirty and we weren't allowed to see them.

You never saw the Lone Ranger, Roy Rogers or anyone else actual kill someone. The heroes back then would just shoot the gun out of the bad guys hand. There was no blood and violence.

When you were sick, the Doctor actually came to your house. No, I am not making this up. Drugs were something you purchased at a pharmacy in order to cure an illness.

If we dared to "sass" our parents, or any other grown-up, we immediately found out what soap tasted like. For more serious infractions, we learned about something called a "this hurts me more than it hurts you." I never did quite understand that one?

In those days, parents were expected to discipline their kids. There was no interference from the government. "Social Services" or "Family Services" had not been invented (The ninth and tenth amendments to the constitution were still observed in those days.)

I must be getting old because I find myself reflecting back more and more and thinking I liked it a lot better back then. If you grew up in a generation before there was fast food, you may want to share some of these memories with your kids or grandchildren. Just don't blame me if they wet themselves laughing. Growing up today sure ain't what it used to be.


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To: Vinnie
Try a peach shake at Hardee's. Trust me.
281 posted on 01/04/2003 5:36:52 PM PST by Howlin
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To: Dakotabound
I remember when I tasted my first Coke Cola in a six ounce, glass bottle. I had never had anything with fizz before and thought I had burned my mouth and throat.

We had a party line and our phone number was something like 364R and we had to crank to call and listen for the right number of rings to answer our phone. Oh my...that is remembering.

282 posted on 01/04/2003 5:38:04 PM PST by blackbart1
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To: Ex-Wretch
What are shoe-locs?

Do you remember 'rock and roll pins?"

283 posted on 01/04/2003 5:38:19 PM PST by Howlin
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To: Conservababe
Ah yes, the clip-ons! I never had any ear lobes so the earrings were always sailing off my ears, usually at a time that would cause me maximum embarrassment, like landing in someone else's coke.

Why couldn't we have our ears pierced in those days? I was always told "nice girls" didn't have pierced ears, but nothing else. I finally got mine pierced when I was 32 years old--I felt like such a rebel!
284 posted on 01/04/2003 5:39:32 PM PST by pepperdog
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To: Exit148
Paper dolls?

Betsy McCall?

Penny loafers?


285 posted on 01/04/2003 5:40:41 PM PST by Howlin
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To: VMI70
"Don't take large bites;--------"

One time, my Mother said to my older brother ----"Another bite like that, and you'll leave the table!" My brother answered----"Another bite like that, and I'll be through!" LOL!

Another couple or so table manner: Don't chew with your mouth open; don't play with your food; use your fork, not your fingers --------and never forget the guilt of all the starving children in China, Europe, or the world!

286 posted on 01/04/2003 5:41:44 PM PST by Exit148
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To: Howlin
I remember our first tv (black and white) had a screen in the shape of an octogan. I have not seen one since like it, really.
287 posted on 01/04/2003 5:41:48 PM PST by Conservababe
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To: WVNan
Finally, someone my age!

I hope that's a compliment. There is Freeper on the thread born in 24 so there is hope for us.

288 posted on 01/04/2003 5:42:18 PM PST by tubebender
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To: Conservababe; Willie Green; mountaineer
OMG.......my grandmother had one of those.........man, I wish I had taken that thing when she died. Nice sheets!
289 posted on 01/04/2003 5:43:32 PM PST by Howlin
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To: blackbart1
If you drank Coke from 6 oz. bottles, you might get one of those mighty flashbacks to another place and time if you taste a Coke bottled in Mexico. It is the "real" Coke, made like it was in the States until sometime in the 60's. The Mexican Coke is made with cane sugar not corn syrup and makes the current American version seem almost tasteless.

What a difference!
290 posted on 01/04/2003 5:43:37 PM PST by DeFault User
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To: montomike; Dakotabound; All
Born late '58 here

My brother had a BB gun and we'd go out and shoot squirrels and birds and usually not kill any. But, shooting orange juice cans with his archery set was way more fun.
My Dad got my son a BB gun, but I don't think you're allowed to shoot one anymore...not in your yard anyhow.
Now there was fast food when I was a kid of course, but I never had any til I was about 15 or 16. We always ate at home. Dinner was family time and you'd better be clean and on-time and mind your manners, especially those elbows on the table.
My mother thought denim was for farmers and clogs were orthopedic shoes...hmm that part of childhood wasn't much fun come to think of it LOL
291 posted on 01/04/2003 5:45:24 PM PST by visualops
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To: mountaineer
My folks didn't get a color TV did us kids were gone. Come to think of it, they got all the good stuff after we were gone. Hmmm.
292 posted on 01/04/2003 5:46:38 PM PST by visualops
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Born in 1952 in Willimantic , CT ...Many fond memories of growing up there ...Drove through last March on my way up to see friends at UCONN ...my old neighborhood now infested with illegal aliens , drug addicts , pimps and hookers . The once grand Victorian homes now dilapidated ...the verdant green manicured lawns once owned by hard working middle class families now littered with junk cars and trash ...The St. Mary's School playground walls all covered with spray can grafitti in a language I cannot speak ...My aunt's big house on the hill now a drug rehab center ...They say it is best not to walk the streets alone at night ...
293 posted on 01/04/2003 5:48:23 PM PST by sushiman
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To: imhere
Another commercial ditty:

"We feed our doggie THRIVO,
He's very much aliveo,
Full of pep and vim.
If you want a peppy pup---
You'd better hurry up---
Buy THRIVO, for him!!"

Gads! I haven't thought of that for aeons and I still remember it! It was a radio commercial for some insipid family program that we all listened to.

294 posted on 01/04/2003 5:48:27 PM PST by Exit148
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To: eeriegeno
Hey all you kids.

And the Pepsi singing commercial went like this.

Pepsi Cola hits the spot
12 full ounces, that's a lot.
Twice as much for a nickel too,
Pepsi Cola is the drink for you.

I was born at home 1925 in NYC. And we had outhouses in the yard. This was in Green-wich Village now upscaled to 'Gren-itch' Village. Milk wagons had horses. The iceman delivered a cube of ice for 25 cents (for our ice-box) and he was coal man in the winter for our kitchen stove which was the only heat in the house. Milk cans were used to get milk (and they were used for beer on occasion). 'Store cheese' was cut to order from a big vat. Entertainment was a nickel ride on the elevated line for special days. Enjoyed your stories.

295 posted on 01/04/2003 5:49:13 PM PST by ex-snook
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To: tenthirteen
>>the riots broke out and the cities burned<<

I grew up in MD outside of DC (Bethesda), and went to school in DC, I remember all too well the riots, war protesters, Watergate, etc etc.

>>Hopefully, this correction will continue and be successful<<
I hope so too. I'm making sure my kids are aware of whats going on and fight the good fight as well.
296 posted on 01/04/2003 5:52:39 PM PST by visualops
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To: Humidston
Before the hair-dryers and rollers, there were those horrid 'pin curls' with a bobby pin pushed thru them. Every once in a while, I see some woman with pin curls, and I wonder if she ever grew up. If you wore them during the day, they were covered up with that ugly wrapped scarf. You still see the scarf in old war movies.
297 posted on 01/04/2003 5:55:36 PM PST by Exit148
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To: Howlin
....Then there was the time my girlfriend and I bleached JUST my bangs. That was a laugh riot and I'm sure I looked like a freak, but we thought it was beautiful. Mom almost killed me.
298 posted on 01/04/2003 5:57:10 PM PST by Humidston
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To: cannonball
That is a keeper!
299 posted on 01/04/2003 5:57:23 PM PST by visualops
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To: Howlin
"Puff puff and piffles... Make me as small as Sniffles."
300 posted on 01/04/2003 5:58:11 PM PST by Humidston
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