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Forty Years of Sexual Intercourse
AmericanProwler.org ^ | Friday, January 3, 2003 | By Francis X. Rocca

Posted on 01/02/2003 11:29:23 PM PST by JohnHuang2

The sexual revolution turns 40 this year -- we have it on no less an authority than Philip Larkin, in the opening lines of "Annus Mirabilis":

Sexual intercourse began
In nineteen sixty-three
(Which was rather late for me) --
Between the end of the
Chatterly ban
And the Beatles' first LP.


Britain actually lifted the ban on Lady Chatterly's Lover in 1960 (a year after the United States), so Larkin is taking poetic license there. But the Beatles' first LP was released on March 22nd, 1963.

I was born on December 16th of that year, so it's quite possible that I was conceived on the very day that Please Please Me hit the shelves. Yet much as I would like to believe that my first sparks of life were raised to the strains of "Love Me Do," I'm virtually certain it didn't happen that way. The album came out on that day in Britain, but the Fab Four didn't invade the States till almost a year later. In any case, my parents have never been rock and roll fans.

Still, the event is personally significant to me, because if Larkin is right, that makes me an exact contemporary of the sexual revolution. I am in no way representative of that revolution, but no one who's had his eyes even occasionally open over the last four decades can have missed the astonishing changes in mores.

According to the pop-historical account of this trend, it started with the first issue of Playboy in 1953 and culminated at Woodstock in 1969. By that time, the story goes, everyone except a few Bible Belt ministers and Midwestern congressmen had surmounted their inhibitions, and even those blue-noses were probably indulging in private.

In fact, the process has been much more drawn out, yet despite the protests of some people and the misgivings of many more, its progress has been inexorable.

Just think. When I was in college in the early '80s, at a famously liberal northeastern university, my friends and I flattered ourselves that we were the height of sophisticated nonchalance. Yet when one of us moved into an off-campus apartment with his girlfriend, the rest of us were startled. Almost a decade after sit-coms had thoroughly dealt with the question, and had decided it in favor of liberty, it still seemed daring to live in sin.

Today I don't know any American families who would make a fuss if their college-age kids cohabited. There are many such families, of course, but the fact that I don't know any of them -- and I know some pretty conservative people -- suggests how widely the conviction has spread that sexual behavior is simply a matter of personal choice.

David Frum writes that Americans today prize sexual liberty the way they did economic liberty at the end of the 19th century and religious liberty at the end of the 18th. For anyone hoping for an imminent pendulum swing in the direction of continence, this is a discouraging analogy. Those other freedoms did not exactly turn out to be passing fads.


Francis X. Rocca is an American writer in Rome.


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Friday, January 3, 2003 Quote of the Day by JoeSixPack1
1 posted on 01/02/2003 11:29:23 PM PST by JohnHuang2
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To: JohnHuang2
Is it me .. or is this a really odd article .. LOL
2 posted on 01/02/2003 11:33:18 PM PST by Mo1
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To: JohnHuang2
Sex is like sports, or for that matter the Roman games of old, since it helps to keep the mind of the underling off of the subject of taxes.
3 posted on 01/02/2003 11:35:06 PM PST by Bogie
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To: Mo1
LOL!!! Love is such a cliche.... speaking of which actress Karen Cliche is blessed or cursed with the wrong last name depending on how you look at it.
4 posted on 01/02/2003 11:36:06 PM PST by goldstategop
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To: Mo1
lol
5 posted on 01/02/2003 11:36:18 PM PST by JohnHuang2
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To: JohnHuang2
Forty Years of Sexual Intercourse

Think how chafed they must be by now.

6 posted on 01/02/2003 11:45:02 PM PST by Dan Day
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To: JohnHuang2
For anyone hoping for an imminent pendulum swing in the direction of continence,...

For most of the founders of the "Sexual Revolution" I imagine it's more like a swing in the direction of incontinence...depends of course!

7 posted on 01/02/2003 11:48:09 PM PST by this_ol_patriot
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To: Dan Day
LOL!!! I don't think THAT one is in the Guiness World Book of Records. Sure there are records of couples kissing for 24 straight hours but I haven't heard of any records being set for couples doing it between the sheets for a 24 hour sexual marathon.
8 posted on 01/02/2003 11:48:55 PM PST by goldstategop
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To: JohnHuang2
Sexual intercourse began In nineteen sixty-three... it's quite possible that I was conceived on the very day that "Please Please Me" hit the shelves... as I would like to believe that my first sparks of life were raised to the strains of "Love Me Do.."

Prior to that, they had to be content with "Willy and the Hand Jive," and 'My Ding-A-Ling."

-PJ

9 posted on 01/02/2003 11:55:53 PM PST by Political Junkie Too
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To: Political Junkie Too
And our most infamous President spent his time lying about having sex. Now that was strange!!! You'd think a 60s Flower Child would defend his tryst with Monica as being true to the philosophy of The Sexual Revolution. Go figure.
10 posted on 01/03/2003 12:00:04 AM PST by goldstategop
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To: JohnHuang2
Economic liberty might not have been a fad, but it did pass.

Religious liberty, if by that is meant the liberty to have, hold, practice, and exercise a religion, is also now passed and over. As in Stalin's Russia, the only thing now allowed is the freedom of anti-religious propaganda.

I think our rulers thought a majority would be so delirious and intoxicated by a sexual free-for-all that they would forget that all other freedoms had been lost. Those of us who are too old, too ugly, or have too much moral principle to get into THAT, then have no liberties whatsoever.

11 posted on 01/03/2003 12:01:28 AM PST by crystalk
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Well, he didn't inhale, and he actually said that he didn't have sex with Monica but that she had sex with him (he was passively receiving Monica's attention). And he also didn't dodge the draft either, which was another '60s staple, so he is consistent about denying the '60s.

Come to think about, he's consistent about denying anything that he's been accused of.

-PJ

12 posted on 01/03/2003 12:08:18 AM PST by Political Junkie Too
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To: Mo1
Is it me .. or is this a really odd article .. LOL

It reads like a badly done exerpt from a much much longer article.

Those of us who are Veterans of the Sexual Revolution, I started college in 1963, and have not succumbed to drugs, war, anti war protests, marriage or sexually transmitted diseases mostly remain in the Active Reserves now. We no longer see a lot of close combat, but remain ready when called upon.

So9

13 posted on 01/03/2003 12:58:46 AM PST by Servant of the Nine
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To: Servant of the Nine
Never married? Never no kids?
14 posted on 01/03/2003 1:31:11 AM PST by rocknotsand
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To: Bogie; JohnHuang2
Sex is like sports, or for that matter the Roman games of old, since it helps to keep the mind of the underling off of the subject of taxes.

Looks like a quote of the day to me !!!

15 posted on 01/03/2003 1:45:33 AM PST by The Raven
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hehehe...Jayne, check out #3 -- I think we've got a winner =^)
16 posted on 01/03/2003 1:48:21 AM PST by JohnHuang2
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To: JohnHuang2
Sex is too good for some people -- politicians, mostly. But also anyone who makes a public spectacle of it, or sticks his nose into other people's acceptably private practices. Hm, wait, I seem to be talking about politicians again.

The rest of us practice verbal reticence as appropriate, draw our blinds at the right times, and wear Gioconda smiles at others.

Freedom, Wealth, and Peace,
Francis W. Porretto
Visit The Palace Of Reason:
http://palaceofreason.com

17 posted on 01/03/2003 4:58:30 AM PST by fporretto
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Forty Years of Sexual Intercourse

Since I was born in 1961, I have a sneaking suspicion that it's been going on longer than that.

18 posted on 01/03/2003 5:12:42 AM PST by PBRSTREETGANG
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To: fporretto; aculeus; general_re; hellinahandcart
The rest of us practice verbal reticence as appropriate, draw our blinds at the right times, and wear Gioconda smiles at others.

No coffee for me, thank you.

19 posted on 01/03/2003 5:13:30 AM PST by dighton
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To: WhyisaTexasgirlinPA
A good hard ping for you. Natch.
20 posted on 01/03/2003 5:18:53 AM PST by Argh
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