[Utilizer]

Are you really interested in an honest reply? Not from a complaining viewpoint as certain others have alleged, but from a mate who has 'been there, done that'.

[Desdemona]

Are you really interested in an honest reply?

Well, yeah...I mean, I'm somewhat curious. You have to understand, my great-grandparents were immigrants from Spain and my great-grandmother, legend has it, really waited on my great-grandfather hand and foot as did a number of other women in the family for their husbands and brothers. My brothers try to exploit this (from me) and I'm just curious.... My own own grandmother read me the riot act once because I told my brother to go get his own beer.