[SCalGal]

I've noticed it, too, you know.... Woman's natural instinct is to keep our loved ones safe - it's how we are made, and it's right for us. But when we are single, when there is no man to lean on... then we must force ourselves to think more logically - this does not mean what we feel is wrong, only that what we feel is not necessarily to be acted upon.

Most people weren't meant to be single, I think.

[BuddhaBoy]

Most people weren't meant to be single, I think.

I was.

Frankly, as much as I love women, I just dont think I was meant to be one of those shoulders to cry on. Not that emotions are bad, but in times of danger, just so inappropriate.

Some people have a problem with the fact that men and women are different. I wouldnt ask a man about nurturing a rock, but I wouldnt ask a woman (except Condi) about how to protect our nation. No offence.