I was.
Frankly, as much as I love women, I just dont think I was meant to be one of those shoulders to cry on. Not that emotions are bad, but in times of danger, just so inappropriate.
Some people have a problem with the fact that men and women are different. I wouldnt ask a man about nurturing a rock, but I wouldnt ask a woman (except Condi) about how to protect our nation. No offence.
Sounds like you haven't met a real woman yet, one who won't get hysterical when things get rough.