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Does that include the times that women in a marriage are impregnated by other men and then decide to get a divorce so they can go out at night and "party" even more?

Back up a step. Who picked the woman?

With all due respect, we've had several male friends whose choices were quite reasonable. Seemingly good solid women with healthy backgrounds who go on after children are born to flake completely out and end the marriage. We have just such a friend right now who is from a VERY traditional family(no warning to this) who decided she wants to focus on her career instead of their one yr old daughter and 6 yr old marriage. I mean her behavior is almost pathological it's beyond comprehension. I can tell you this story many times over too. I do seem to notice a trend of women flipping out like this AFTER having children and I'm starting to suspect some link between hormonal turmoil and bad decision making(not to excuse it, but I wish women would consider the possibility before making any sort of big decisions like this). BTW, this friend does not want his marriage to end and is very upset for his daughter because his wife is rejecting her.
Anyway my point is that, yes, some men make poor decisions a to who they pick, some women do to, but anymore, some women seem perfectly stable when they are marrying them and then change in incomprehensible ways as the marriage moves on.