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The age difference in the case you described definitely made it borderline. But the first grader who talked to your pre-school aged son clearly hadn't been complaining to teachers or parents about it. And I hate to break it to you, but until you intervened, your son WAS headed for school with anticipation of sex in the boys room -- he made that pretty clear to you, I thought. The first grader he looked up to had told him that was one of things kids did at school, along with kickball at recess, and spitballs in class when the teacher has her back turned.

Many of the little neighborhood boys probably acquired similar information about what to expect at school. And from your description, it sounded as this had been going on for some years, involving a large number of boys, with little ones moving into the role of older ones as they grew, and NONE of them ever complaining to teachers or parents. This is just very different than a little boy being held down and forcibly and painfully raped by a pair of much larger boys.

And I hate to break it to you, but until you intervened, your son WAS headed for school with anticipation of sex in the boys room -- he made that pretty clear to you, I thought. The first grader he looked up to had told him that was one of things kids did at school, along with kickball at recess, and spitballs in class when the teacher has her back turned.

You're one sick puppy.