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Goodbye to San Francisco - We are paying for the privilege of living in a city that hates us.
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Posted on 09/20/2002 10:15:09 PM PDT by chance33_98


Goodbye to San Francisco
BY SAMANTHA SPIVAK
Special to The Examiner

IF SHE WERE YOUR wife, once beautiful and loving, but now shrewish, unkempt and manipulative, you would leave her.

If she were a business, unconcerned about providing service after you paid a hefty premium, you would buy from someone else.

She is neither, but she exhibits the worst traits of both. She is the city of San Francisco. I, for one, am taking my business elsewhere. I'm filing for divorce. She's slovenly, self-destructive, disrespectful, hates my friends, and regularly entertains some pretty repugnant companions on my dime. She never listens to me. All she wants is money, money, money, and all I get in return is contempt.

Who needs it? I'm looking for a city that will appreciate me, an average, hardworking, tax-paying citizen. I'm available to keep a tidy home and be a good neighbor in a city that will love me back.

It's a heartbreaking decision. Since the sixth grade, when I made weekly trips to the Richmond district for ballet lessons, all I ever wanted was to live here and love the city. I fell in love with the majestic, Russian-influenced Victorians, and dreamed of buying one some day.

Years later, my fantasy home had become both an impossible dream and a nightmare investment. Rent control and bushels of other city regulations had created an imbalance between housing supply and housing demand. Single-family homes were out of reach. Multi-unit Victorians came with inherited long-term tenants who pay permanently tiny rents. Those fabulous old buildings were a big-money gamble against unfavorable odds.

For a couple of average residents -- I have a husband now -- the prudent plan featured a newer building in the Mission, exempt from rent control, with a rental unit for income. With dueling calculators, we did the math over and over, to make sure we weren't getting in over our heads. Then we plunged into a 40-year mortgage and bought a modern building with two flats. We moved into one and rented out the other.

That purchase transformed us overnight from something The City loves -- two single people with little at stake -- into something The City hates. We became property owners, and, as providers of a desperately needed commodity, a unit of housing, we also became that most-hated breed of small businesspersons -- landlords.

Each day's front page provided at least one uncritical account of our homeownership as the cause of other peoples' misery. Rarely in the 1990s were intelligent questions raised about the real cause of the housing shortage. We heard no talk, except from other average residents, about the insanity of imposing legal obstacles on builders and landlords in a market starved for housing.

City leaders mouthed their intentions to expand housing, even as their daily decisions resulted in a tight housing supply and higher prices. Then, in their eagerness to be perceived as renter friendly, they were only too happy to stand silently behind rent control activists who cast the blame on us, recent homeowners. Few politicians said it aloud, but most lent their tacit support to the oft-repeated premise that our greed (a word I have come to despise) must be reined in to protect everyone else.

We began to notice that a lot of average residents get the blame for things they didn't cause, and there's always a price to be paid. In our neighborhood, we've seen honest merchants prosecuted by The City because criminals spill into their establishments from the surrounding streets. They are forced to spend thousands of dollars on fines, and thousands more on attorneys, to defend their right to stay open. The police testify against the merchants rather than control the criminals. This is how The City rewards people who try to serve customers and provide jobs in a poor neighborhood.

Meanwhile, the City Attorney's Office has achieved a certain prominence by profiteering off merchants who are accused of "allowing" crime to take place in their stores. Hailed by the legal press for shaping a code enforcement team into a brigade of revenue generators, San Francisco raises the bar for run-of-the-mill city attorneys everywhere.

San Francisco blithely assigns to average residents such public tasks as policing crime and housing the poor, yet we are granted little control over our private decisions. The City decides our private matters for us. The City's decisions are not recommendations, they are mandates, enforced with threats of fines, criminal prosecution or confiscation of property. As landlords, we are presumed guilty. As businesspeople, we are presumed destructive, or at least inept.

A landlord who was stabbed by a drug-dealing tenant, for instance, must continue to rent to the stabber, even though he is violent, and the other tenants complain about unsavory activity in the building. This is The City's way of protecting renters. A merchant who runs a shop on the first floor of her building wants to rent out the second floor to another business. But new zoning controls dictate the type of business she can consider. Nonsensically, most of them are not appropriate for a second-story location. Her upper floor sits empty, because the Planning Department decides what's best for the neighborhood, and to hell with the average citizens whose neighborhood it is.

Now and then, someone calls a summit of stakeholders to discuss how our investment can be more useful to others. We are not treated as stakeholders, even though we are the ones who hold the financial risk. In the political parlance of San Francisco, stakeholders are the people who benefit from our investment, the nonprofits -- oddly called "non-governmental organizations" -- and their constituents, who are perpetually positioned as victims of our success. They receive our taxes as grants from The City's coffers, and use them to fight us at City Hall when we try to live our lives. These organizations define the terms of the discussions, and set the agenda for the Board of Supervisors. This seems, to borrow from their vernacular, unfair.

Average residents don't count in San Francisco. All the while we are being held in contempt, we are paying for the privilege of living in a city that hates us. The money disappears into a black hole, earmarked for special schools never built, homeless left unsheltered and ballot boxes set afloat in the Bay. City leaders, unashamed, press us for more. They exhort us to pay our "fair share."

November's ballot brings, as always, another set of expensive new bonds, and an astonishing request for a pay raise by the Board of Supervisors, who harbor a childlike belief that average residents have an infinite capacity to pay, even after suffering several years of layoffs, pay cuts and declining business. If we vote them a pay raise, will they honor all of our other votes? They've had no qualms in the past about overturning the will of the voters when it doesn't coincide with their own.

We've had enough. With great sadness, and enormous anger, we are packing up and leaving. Common sense and a concern for our future tell us to get out. We fear growing old here.

Goodbye, my once beloved San Francisco. See ya in the funny papers. Maybe after some time apart, I'll be able to look back and laugh.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Miscellaneous; US: California
KEYWORDS: enoughisenough; escapingoccupiedsf; ksfo; sanfrancisco
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To: chance33_98
Welcome to the club. I left last year. It just sucked the life out of me. The whole Bay Area can roll over and die.
21 posted on 09/20/2002 11:45:03 PM PDT by Demosthenes
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To: Political Junkie Too
It mentions something about her doing a radio gig in the article footnotes on the site.
22 posted on 09/20/2002 11:48:56 PM PDT by chance33_98
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To: Demosthenes
I lived in Ridgecrest and Tehachapi, and the wife is from bakersfield. I moved back here to Ohio with her about 4 years ago (I grew up here). She has no desire to ever move back there and the only things I miss are the mountains and a few friends. Entire time I lived there I never saw the ocean and tried hard to stay on the east side of the Sierras. Life is better on that side, especially the farther north you go - but the big idiots on the west side of the mountains make laws which have no relevance to those on the east side. It is the great california band aid solution. If it effects people in the city then we must pass a law for the entire state. Idiots. I only go back to visit friends and my daughter - and I manage a drive to Mt. Whitney. The scenery there is great, it is the politicians that are polluting the state.
23 posted on 09/20/2002 11:53:26 PM PDT by chance33_98
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To: chance33_98
'Moscow On The Pacific'
I don't blame you for leaving.
I left in 1988 and never looked back, and it's my home town!
Let the commie pigs wallow in their filth right along with Seattle & Berkeley.
24 posted on 09/21/2002 12:00:45 AM PDT by rockfish59
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To: johnny7
San Francisky... I wouldn't use a restroom there.:^D

No one else does. I once overheard my daughter, at the time four years old, telling a friend, "San Francisco: that's the place where they sleep in doorways and pee on the sidewalks."

25 posted on 09/21/2002 12:54:45 AM PDT by Salvey
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To: Salvey
At the same time.
26 posted on 09/21/2002 1:04:36 AM PDT by quietolong
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To: Lancey Howard
Only thirty years ago San Francisco was a beautiful place, a place you could even take kids to see. Those days are long, long gone now and the only surprise is that this author stayed as long as she did. But that's one of those things I will simply never understand - - why does it take people so long to figure out it is time to leave Zimbabwe.... or time to leave San Francisco?

The triumphant of hope over experience

27 posted on 09/21/2002 1:31:19 AM PDT by yankeedame
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To: chance33_98
It didn't take me long to realize that beneath the seductive veneer of San Francisco lay the most oppressive control and exploitation of individuality I've ever experienced anywhere. Marin is even worse.
28 posted on 09/21/2002 1:34:49 AM PDT by Savage Beast
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To: rockfish59
Georgia is rapidly becoming just as bad.
29 posted on 09/21/2002 1:37:49 AM PDT by Savage Beast
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To: Savage Beast
Where is Marin? I read the paper from there (linked via my website) but have never been there. Suppose it does not matter, they are all crazy anyways :)
30 posted on 09/21/2002 1:46:58 AM PDT by chance33_98
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To: Savage Beast
On December 21, 2000, in San Francisco, the annual candlelight memorial was held for the homeless who died in the past year on the streets. This year the reading of names of the dead included 183 people who had died. The event is sponsored by the San Francisco Coalition for the Homeless. The data on homeless deaths is gathered annually by the San Francisco Department of Health.

The site is that of a photographer who also happens to have these pics -notice they are not as friendly as the homeless ones... ;)

White Supremacist Teens Gilroy, California

Website

31 posted on 09/21/2002 1:53:37 AM PDT by chance33_98
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To: chance33_98
I liked this one though:


32 posted on 09/21/2002 1:56:15 AM PDT by chance33_98
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To: goodieD
I too live in "central" CA, SLO county to be more specific. I'm not looking to get out, just rid of the current Governor.
33 posted on 09/21/2002 1:56:29 AM PDT by DB
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To: chance33_98
Marin County is the county just across San Francisco Bay and the Golden Gate Bridge from the city of San Francisco. From the southern coast of Marin County, the view of the city and the bay is spectacular. In fact, Marin is an unusually beautiful place. It is affluent, trendy, pretentious, and concensus oriented and is overwhelmingly "Liberal" and consequently oppressive and intolerant.
34 posted on 09/21/2002 1:58:56 AM PDT by Savage Beast
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To: chance33_98
My wife and I live in the mountains and the forests about 45 miles south of Yerba Buena (SF). I work out of my house and I usually stay up most of the night working. About once an hour I go stand on the deck, smoke a cigarette and gaze up at the night sky. I can't tell you how many times I've done and thought to myself, gee God with all the hundreds of thousands of asteroids you've got up there, couldn't you spare just one little ol' 100 footer, please, and lob it into San Francisco? Sometimes he teases me by streaking a tiny meteor over my head in their direction. But I keep waiting and hoping anyway. Maybe during the next "gay pride day" parade.

Regards,

Boot Hill

35 posted on 09/21/2002 2:31:11 AM PDT by Boot Hill
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To: chance33_98
A 40-year mortgage? That should be a clue that the property involved is overvalued. "Reality, what a concept!"
36 posted on 09/21/2002 2:33:54 AM PDT by Bernard
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To: Boot Hill
Ahhh I remember the nights there myself. Out in the desert could see millions of stars - it was awesome. I think we should declare the whole state a national park and kick em all out :)
37 posted on 09/21/2002 2:41:50 AM PDT by chance33_98
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To: chance33_98
I went outside for my usual break before replying to you and saw the Pleiades and Aldebaran in Tuarus even with the moon still up. I love it out here in the mountains. (If only those damn flat landers would stay the hell away!)

Regards,

Boot Hill

38 posted on 09/21/2002 2:57:44 AM PDT by Boot Hill
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To: chance33_98
40 year mortgage?!?!?!
39 posted on 09/21/2002 5:26:14 AM PDT by glorgau
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To: glorgau
Well, in their defense, they did live in San Fran which causes the IQ to drop. She must have left the city for a few weeks and came to her senses :)
40 posted on 09/21/2002 5:32:24 AM PDT by chance33_98
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