[SouthernFreebird]

Um no, there is a happy medium between the two extremes.... It's called a real man.

[alpowolf]

I see your point but I don't regard a gentleman as an "extreme". You don't have to be a wuss to be a gentleman. In my mind, a gentleman, among other things, can fight like a lion and dance like Fred Astaire. I see no discord between my knowing how to waltz, and the fact that I carry a .45.

[Hawkeye's Girl]

Exactly.