Certainly the passage you quoted supports your argument. However, Jude wasn't an apostle or a prophet. Ezekiel was a prophet, and if it comes down to a question of the Ezekiel passage versus the Jude passage, clearly Ezekiel is the more reliable source - unless you believe that the prophets essentially didn't know what they were talking about.So it's come to dismissing certain passages and accepting others has it? Somehow it always does with folks like you. The Bible is the holy written inspired Word of God. All of it.
So sorry to hear about your case.