[almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo]

,,, that's the standard line given by all winners (sic) who generally identify well with grief and loss in any other context apart from this topic. Trouble is, getting over it (or as your type would call it "healing") isn't quite as easy when faced with great financial inequity, engineered by a system so well disposed to your ilk.

That's funny. This is the most used line by father's rights activitist, next to "money grubbing bitch".

[shaggy eel]

,,, I've never used the term "money grubbing bitch" as my two children are responsibilities I'm glad to say I honour, both financially and with as much time as I'm allowed to give them. However, the stripping of assets that I've paid for with hard earned tax paid dollars under the guise of what's "best for the children" is a sore point. I have no need to live in the $330,000 house she got, but taking on debt to house myself in more modest accomodation because my ex prefers to live with my father is something the governement shouldn't endorse, much less financially assist her with.