[shaggy eel]

,,, I've never used the term "money grubbing bitch" as my two children are responsibilities I'm glad to say I honour, both financially and with as much time as I'm allowed to give them. However, the stripping of assets that I've paid for with hard earned tax paid dollars under the guise of what's "best for the children" is a sore point. I have no need to live in the $330,000 house she got, but taking on debt to house myself in more modest accomodation because my ex prefers to live with my father is something the governement shouldn't endorse, much less financially assist her with.

[almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo]

I've never used the term "money grubbing bitch"

Perhaps you haven't. However, if, as you stated, "Get over it" is the standard line given by all winners? (I assumed you meant whiners...or is it winners in court you refer to?), then it would appear those who use it often were the winners/whiners? AKA all those FR advocates who toss it around freely would fall into that category.