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The Arabs I know
Arab News ^ | 8-8-02 | Frank Fugate

Posted on 08/08/2002 5:18:16 AM PDT by SJackson

Wake up America! Special interest groups, news media, and money-hungry politicians are duping you into profiling all Arabs as bad Arabs. Often, the news media tell us the polls show Americans support Israelis over Palestinians. Based on what? How many of these poll participants have seen an Arab, talked to an Arab, or worked with an Arab? Very few, I would venture. On what then do they base their opinion? They are largely influenced by the biased news media, which give no quarter in making sure we see all Arabs as bad Arabs. Are there bad Arabs? Of course there are. Are there bad Americans? We have plenty of them. Where are all the bad Israelis? There must be some. Why don’t we hear more about them?

I lived in the Middle East for over 33 years. I have seen Arabs, I have talked with Arabs, I have worked with Arabs and I have lived with Arabs. Over this span of 33 years I had an opportunity to meet and interact with Arabs from all walks of life — kings, ministers, emirs, college professors and businessmen — and I worked with Arab employees from laborer to president. I believe this qualifies me to speak about Arabs.

Arabs have many of the same desires and expectations as we Americans. They love their families, they love their country, they love their land, they want to better themselves, they want to live in peace, and they worship the same God as Christians and Jews. They are the most hospitable people I have ever known. The Arabs I know do not judge people by their race, religion, or nationality — but by their character. They are some of the best observers of people I have ever encountered and I have traveled the globe. They will judge you in their hearts, but are reluctant to criticize you face-to-face or publicly. Arabs greet you with Salaam Alaikum (peace upon you) — and your response should be, Waalaikum Assalaam (and upon you peace). To Arabs, peace is not rhetoric; it is a way of life.

I went to the Middle East in 1954 to work as a young engineer — eager and adventurous. I spent my first month in Sidon, Lebanon at a training center. Where I learned some conversational Arabic language and was introduced to Arab culture. On weekends and in the evenings I would travel all over Lebanon by motorbike and even to Syria. I had nothing but good memories. I would stop at a village to have refreshments and on many occasions I was invited to homes by Arabs to meet their families, view their olive groves, and have refreshments. It was a wonderful experience.

I then traveled to my ultimate destination — Saudi Arabia. I continued my interest in the Arab world by visiting villages in the Kingdom. Arabs would invite me to their village and their homes for a meal and/or coffee. They shared their food with me. I sat in their majlis (living room) along the wall on cushions and drank coffee with sometime as many as 20-25 people present. The host would move about the room with a large Arab coffee pot and a stack of petite cups, serving his guest hot coffee flavored with cardamom seeds, until we all had drank our customary three cups. Then he would start his rounds again serving hot tea. The conversation was a good chance to practice my Arabic. They would laugh understandingly when I mispronounced a word. If we had been invited for a meal, we would retire to another room to sit around a huge brass tray heaped with Arab rice around a steaming spit-roasted lamb. The delicious rice was flavored with nuts, raisins, and spices. There would also be spit-roasted chicken. On some weekends I would visit as many as 10 homes in one day to share their food, coffee, or tea. I had to turn down invitations because there were so many. I would no more than step into the street when I would be taken by the hand and told, “You must come to my house for gahwa (coffee).” The congeniality was sincere and hospitality never lacking.

I was there during the 1967 Arab-Israeli War. The air was full of tension because the US was supporting Israel. One of my Arab friends wanted me to send my family to his village to stay with his family for safety. Of course I wouldn’t let them go, because I did not want to put his family in harm’s way. As a result, he brought with him another Arab friend to stay with my family for our protection. I had a hard time convincing them it wasn’t necessary.

Another Arab friend called me on the phone during the 1967 Arab-Israeli War and said he had heard they were evacuating Americans and wanted to know if I were leaving. I told him I was not going, but was considering sending my wife and three-year old daughter. He said, “Why? You have many friends here.” I replied, “It’s not my friends I am worried about.” We laughed about that for years afterward. He would ask me if I was now worried about my friends.

When one of my Arab friends went to America for a medical problem, he brought me a huge amount of cash and asked that I look after his family while he was gone. His oldest son would come every week and I was to give him a specified amount for expenses. My boss heard about this and advised me not to do it, because something could happen to my friend and his family could cause me problems. Obviously my boss did not understand the bond of friendship that existed. There was no way I would violate that friendship. For over a year, I looked after his family until my friend returned to Saudi Arabia.

Returning to Saudi Arabia after a vacation, my wife and I inadvertently left one of our many suitcases on the sidewalk, outside the airport, when we were loading them into the car. After the weekend, we asked a company driver to see if by some chance it had been turned in to lost-and- found. The driver returned with the bag. Airport security told the driver it sat on the sidewalk for two days. When no one picked it up a policeman finally brought it to lost-and-found. Try leaving your bag on the platform in the New York subway for two days.

The Bedouin hailing down your vehicle as it neared his tent — insisting you stop and have coffee with him, traveling all over Saudi Arabia without fear of carjacking, camping deep in the desert with strange Bedouin stopping to visit, stuck in the sand and have every passerby stopping to help, and leaving your doors unlocked (something you don’t do in America) — on and on — these are the Arabs all Americans should know.

I leave you with these few examples of the many, many good Arabs I know.

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(Frank Fugate is a former Aramco senior vice president.)


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To: Khazaria
That statement would seem to mean that we were at war with something before it was even born(Islam).1200 years would be a more appropriate figure(no arguementintended).

Ok, Ok, how about 1400 years based on this:

The first stage consisted of individual murders of Jews (AD 624); the second entailed the expulsion of two tribes from Medina (625-626); the third was completed with the slaughter of one remaining tribe, Banu Qurayzah (627). Muhammad offered the men conversion to Islam as an alternative to death; upon their refusal up to 900 were decapitated at the ditch, in front of their women and children. Torches were lit so that the slaughter could be accomplished all in one day. "

121 posted on 08/12/2002 5:13:29 AM PDT by kapn kuek
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To: zhabotinsky
Emerson made a documentary for PBS a few years back whose name escapes me.

Jihad in America, 1994.
Now also a book, American Jihad, The Free Press, 2002.

122 posted on 08/12/2002 5:30:35 AM PDT by Publius6961
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To: snippy_about_it
and the Quran was originally written in Arabic.

And all Muslims worldwide are encouraged to read it in the original Arabic.
They get more "allah" points that way.

123 posted on 08/12/2002 5:33:45 AM PDT by Publius6961
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To: nightdriver
There is only one God, we all worship Him, only some differently, and by different names.
124 posted on 08/12/2002 5:35:03 AM PDT by stuartcr
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To: kdoxxx
Otherwise known as propaganda, something you seem to be intimately comfortable with.

Welcome to Free Republic.

I am sure you can give us many pointers about the effective nuances in propaganda.
Would be a pleasant change.

125 posted on 08/12/2002 5:36:49 AM PDT by Publius6961
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To: SJackson
How many of these poll participants have seen an Arab, talked to an Arab, or worked with an Arab?...I lived among arabs for 4 years. Not particularly impressed with anything about them except how dangerous they are.
126 posted on 08/12/2002 5:39:35 AM PDT by RWG
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To: SJackson
The author makes a big deal about his luggage still sitting on the curb after two days. Actually, this is just another indication of how backward the Saudi's are.

The penalty for stealing in Saudi Arabia is to have your hand cut off. A co-worker of mine several years ago had worked in SA, and said that the Saudi's would never think of picking up something lost in order to turn it in, as they didn't want to take the chance of being caught in posession of it on the way to return it.

No one wants to risk losing a hand because they decided to do the right thing and turn in someone's wallet or purse. Only a policeman would dare touch it, which was what happened in this case.
127 posted on 08/12/2002 6:00:37 AM PDT by Fletcher J
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To: stuartcr
There is only one God, we all worship Him, only some differently, and by different names.

Sorry.
The results of each different perception of the same god is what matters.

Obviously they are not all the same.

A distinction with an enormous difference.

128 posted on 08/12/2002 8:46:51 AM PDT by Publius6961
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To: Publius6961
What exactly is the result of a perception of God, and why does it matter?
130 posted on 08/12/2002 9:20:54 AM PDT by stuartcr
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To: SJackson
How do you tell the "good moderate arab muslims" from the covert Attas ticking like time bombs?

You can't. You just have to wait for the explosion.

131 posted on 08/12/2002 9:24:20 AM PDT by Travis McGee
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To: stuartcr; dennisw; knighthawk
What exactly is the result of a perception of God, and why does it matter?

It matters because one "perception of God" leads millions to support the terror murder of women and children "infidels" in the pursit of spreading their "perception of God" across the globe.

Is that impossible for you to comprehend?

Radical Islam is an insane murder cult, "moderate" Islam is its Trojan Horse.

132 posted on 08/12/2002 9:28:07 AM PDT by Travis McGee
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To: Travis McGee
I find it hard to comprehend why anyone would do anything in the name of God.
133 posted on 08/12/2002 9:37:12 AM PDT by stuartcr
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To: stuartcr
What exactly is the result of a perception of God, and why does it matter?

If you need to ask the question, and if you perceive no difference between the behavior of Muslims vis a vis Christians, based on their respective perceptions of their respective "gods", no further dialog is possible.

Have a nice day.

134 posted on 08/12/2002 9:40:52 AM PDT by Publius6961
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To: stuartcr
Why does that not surprise me?

What if one's "god" is Marxism Leninism and the creation of "the New Soviet Man"? Over 100 million died to feed that "god".

135 posted on 08/12/2002 12:50:19 PM PDT by Travis McGee
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To: Travis McGee
I didn't realise Marxism-Leninism was considered God.
136 posted on 08/12/2002 1:12:54 PM PDT by stuartcr
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To: snippy_about_it
Only about 12 percent of Muslims worldwide are Arabs.

But what percentage of Arabs are Muslim? Bet it's almost all, because demographically, Arab countries are predominantly Muslim. So it CAN be said that Islam is the religion of the Arabs. Especially since it originated in Arabia by Arabians. It's just become the religion of other ethnic groups as well.

137 posted on 08/12/2002 1:50:51 PM PDT by agrace
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To: Johnny Shear
You'll upset all the racist Arab/Muslim haters here!! Don't you know that ALL Muslims and Arabs are ALIKE!!!!! They're all bloodthirsty cult members!!!

Your need to speak out for Arabs and muslims is becoming very clear. Very interesting....

138 posted on 08/13/2002 11:57:58 AM PDT by Joe Hadenuf
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To: SJackson
Would those good Arabs be like the ones here in
Tampa, Fl., who a day after the Palestinian attack on the university in Jeruselem, marched in Tampa to support Hamas, the group that took credit for the murder of Americans on that university in Jeruselem.ERRRR CASE CLOSED!
139 posted on 08/13/2002 12:02:35 PM PDT by TJFLSTRAT
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