[griffin]

Teenage? There is an age where the child is supposed to be able to choose who he/she wants to live with. Any info on that age for your state?

[RobRoy]

Yes. Don't laugh now. It's 18...

My ex is just stalling at this point. Her maintenance runs out in a month and I have been paying thousands a month for years (including child support).

We originally weren't going for support (if we could come to terms) but she refused to meet even once. Now, we're going for court ordered support based on the child support schedule. We'll then do it the standard way - immediate garnishment of wages though Department of Social and Health Services (DSHS), a seriously wicked organization.

That's how it's done in this state... 8^>