Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article

Skip to comments.

THE RANT: Just when did our daughters start dressing like hookers?
Capital Hill Blue ^ | July 8, 2002 | Doug Thompson

Posted on 07/09/2002 1:12:54 PM PDT by Stand Watch Listen

God knows I’m not a prude. As a teenager, I hid Playboys under my mattress, ogled the lingerie ads in the Sears Catalog and even knew about the secret place at my high school where you could look into the girls’ locker room shower.

On most Saturday nights, I was in the back seat of my ’57 Ford at the Autodrome drive-in in Radford, Virginia, wrestling with some young lady, trying to score the teenage sexual equivalent of a home run (funny how we learned early on to equate sports and sex).

In the immortal words of Meatloaf in his anthem to raging teenage hormones, the goal was to “see paradise by the dashboard light.”

Memories of those angst-filled days came back over the 4th of July weekend while sitting under a refreshment stand tent at a carnival in East St. Louis, Illinois, watching too many young girls parade by in the accepted attire of the times.

After an hour of so of this, I had to wonder: How in the hell does a teenage boy today keep his hormones under control? Lord, I had enough trouble when a glimpse of young female leg above the knee would satisfy the lustful cravings of a young man’s desire.

But now, with bare-midriff tops, low slung jeans, low-cut haltertops, thongs and see through blouses, there ain’t a hell of a lot left to the imagination.

We’re not talking about just 17, 18 or 19 year old hardbodies here, but 12 and 13 year olds wearing shorts low enough for the tops of thongs to show and blouses with enough open buttons to show what they may one day have to show.

Add to that enough navel, nose and eyebrow rings to start a jewelry store and you start to wonder just when it became acceptable for young women to dress like hookers.

Like most men, I enjoy looking at sexy young things, although at my age, “young” begins at about age 45. But I wonder if young girls shouldn’t at least go through puberty before letting all that they may or may not have hang out for public view.

Should a 15-year-old girl be parading around in public wearing jeans cut so low that they require shaving of pubic hair or shorts that ride high enough in back to show off butt cheeks? Are parents allowing this or are these nymphets changing into their CFM attire after they leave home?

If current teenage attire can shock even a dirty old man like me, has it gone to far?

I don’t have an answer. I do find it unsettling. If I had a teenage daughter right now, I’d probably lock her away until a safer age, say about 30 or maybe even 40.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS:
Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-20 ... 141-160161-180181-200 ... 261-276 next last
To: Stand Watch Listen
She thinks I'm kiddin' but I've got the footing done. That tower will rise and she needs to change her name to Rapunzel!
161 posted on 07/09/2002 5:03:08 PM PDT by Young Werther
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Stand Watch Listen
I can't wait to see what the clothing style is when my 4 and a half month old daughter is a teen.
162 posted on 07/09/2002 5:03:27 PM PDT by splach78
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: ventana

Isn't it great?

They want to be their "friends" Touching, and probably a good idea in some alternate universe..

163 posted on 07/09/2002 5:03:33 PM PDT by Jhoffa_
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 2 | View Replies]

To: Stand Watch Listen
I am sorry, really sorry. You were simply born about 40 years too early. That's the breaks. Suck it up and deal with it.

If you had been born even earlier, those exposed legs of your youth would have been just as shocking as the bare midriff of today.

PS: I have many fond memories from the Radford Drive-In Movie on the other side of the bridge. :-)

164 posted on 07/09/2002 5:07:53 PM PDT by Jeff Gordon
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Tuor
I don't know what women (or girls) want.

That's pretty self-evident.

165 posted on 07/09/2002 5:10:21 PM PDT by DAnconia55
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 75 | View Replies]

To: DAnconia55
A nice Freudian turn of phrase there. "What Do Women Want?" The answer to the question's easy. Just watch the movie with Mel Gibson and Helen Hunt and as they say, the rest is history.
166 posted on 07/09/2002 5:13:22 PM PDT by goldstategop
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 165 | View Replies]

To: Wyatt's Torch
eyelid rings.

??? Are you serious? I think I'd rather have my..... pierced.

You don't mean eyebrow, do you?

167 posted on 07/09/2002 5:15:39 PM PDT by DAnconia55
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 88 | View Replies]

To: southerngrit
I don't know about the rest of you, but my daughter has a remarkable sense of self esteem. We haven't had the slutty let-it-all-hang out problem with her wardrobe, because she hasn't felt the need to draw attention to herself by dressing to shock.

Amen.

168 posted on 07/09/2002 5:25:38 PM PDT by gitmo
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 158 | View Replies]

To: mindprism.com
the removal of the 'slut' stigmata

You people are so integrated into the double standard, you don't even know what you're saying.

You're acting as if it's ok for guys to want and enjoy sex, but like something out medieval time, it's a sin for women to..

Quarterback sleeps with whole cheerleading squad? Good for him.
Cheerleader sleeps with anyone - she's a slut.

Get real.

169 posted on 07/09/2002 5:28:25 PM PDT by DAnconia55
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 124 | View Replies]

To: goodieD
I find it hard to go shopping for my 4 year old these days

....and you don't think there's anything wrong with you with assigning sexuality to a 4yr old.

Yeah, I'd trust your judgement.

170 posted on 07/09/2002 5:30:20 PM PDT by DAnconia55
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 125 | View Replies]

To: Bella_Bru
If you've not been "purged", I can't think of anyone better suited to deal with some of the crap on this thread....
171 posted on 07/09/2002 5:42:47 PM PDT by DAnconia55
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 2 | View Replies]

To: Stand Watch Listen
Tricky subject.

Girls were revealing outfits for a whole set of reasons: they like the attention, they feel sexy, they like to rebel against authority (but not peer pressure), finally peer pressure.

I work with an 18 year-old lesbian who wears revealing outfits and flirts with me. Go figure that out.

Franhly, as a 25-year-old man, I'm torn. I like attractive women wearing next to nothng. (I hate it when fat or ugly girls do).

On the other hand, I'm a social conservative who dissaproves of such things, especially when my younger sister is wearing revealing outfits. (I almost beat up the first boy I caught leering at my sis when she was 13. It was a good thing my sister grabbed the bike lock.)
ironically, my sister, who is now 21, is beginning to have reservations. She is a camp counselor and is revolted by 8 or 10 year old girls dressing like Brtiney Spears.

172 posted on 07/09/2002 5:49:00 PM PDT by rmlew
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: DAnconia55
There is a difference between having a desire and acting upon it.

As for the double standard, blame nature or God or whatever you want. Girls become pregnant, guys don't. Both get STD's.

173 posted on 07/09/2002 5:51:56 PM PDT by rmlew
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 169 | View Replies]

To: budwiesest
8 year olds already wear thongs. They don't like the lines in their tight jeans.
I'm not sure who is running the fashion industry these days: Homosexual men or heterosexual pedophiles.
174 posted on 07/09/2002 5:53:57 PM PDT by rmlew
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 156 | View Replies]

To: rmlew
And pregnancy has what to do with desire, exactly?

You're not living in 1500. We do have modern birth control.

175 posted on 07/09/2002 5:54:25 PM PDT by DAnconia55
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 173 | View Replies]

To: rmlew
Probably homosexual men.

Look at the supermodels.

It's really time that straight men who like sex get to pick them :)

176 posted on 07/09/2002 5:55:52 PM PDT by DAnconia55
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 174 | View Replies]

To: Tuscaloosa Goldfinch
Way to go, Tuscaloosa. We need more parents like you.
177 posted on 07/09/2002 5:56:52 PM PDT by Don Myers
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 147 | View Replies]

To: untenured
"Because no daughter of mine is going out dressed to service the fleet."

At least she'll be able to outrun the not-so-fleet.

<)B^)

178 posted on 07/09/2002 5:58:52 PM PDT by Erasmus
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 4 | View Replies]

To: DAnconia55
Must be the Stanford Blatch influence from Sex and The City. He sets the trends in fashion...
179 posted on 07/09/2002 5:59:24 PM PDT by goldstategop
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 176 | View Replies]

To: DAnconia55
"Part of the problem is you older types have logical disconnects. "

Actually, the problem is the many airheads who are floating around out there who see nothing wrong with the way that things are today. The girls do have a problem. They are not getting the training they need to ward off the evil spells like you.

180 posted on 07/09/2002 5:59:48 PM PDT by Don Myers
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 138 | View Replies]


Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-20 ... 141-160161-180181-200 ... 261-276 next last

Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.

Free Republic
Browse · Search
News/Activism
Topics · Post Article

FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson