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THE RANT: Just when did our daughters start dressing like hookers?
Capital Hill Blue ^ | July 8, 2002 | Doug Thompson

Posted on 07/09/2002 1:12:54 PM PDT by Stand Watch Listen

God knows I’m not a prude. As a teenager, I hid Playboys under my mattress, ogled the lingerie ads in the Sears Catalog and even knew about the secret place at my high school where you could look into the girls’ locker room shower.

On most Saturday nights, I was in the back seat of my ’57 Ford at the Autodrome drive-in in Radford, Virginia, wrestling with some young lady, trying to score the teenage sexual equivalent of a home run (funny how we learned early on to equate sports and sex).

In the immortal words of Meatloaf in his anthem to raging teenage hormones, the goal was to “see paradise by the dashboard light.”

Memories of those angst-filled days came back over the 4th of July weekend while sitting under a refreshment stand tent at a carnival in East St. Louis, Illinois, watching too many young girls parade by in the accepted attire of the times.

After an hour of so of this, I had to wonder: How in the hell does a teenage boy today keep his hormones under control? Lord, I had enough trouble when a glimpse of young female leg above the knee would satisfy the lustful cravings of a young man’s desire.

But now, with bare-midriff tops, low slung jeans, low-cut haltertops, thongs and see through blouses, there ain’t a hell of a lot left to the imagination.

We’re not talking about just 17, 18 or 19 year old hardbodies here, but 12 and 13 year olds wearing shorts low enough for the tops of thongs to show and blouses with enough open buttons to show what they may one day have to show.

Add to that enough navel, nose and eyebrow rings to start a jewelry store and you start to wonder just when it became acceptable for young women to dress like hookers.

Like most men, I enjoy looking at sexy young things, although at my age, “young” begins at about age 45. But I wonder if young girls shouldn’t at least go through puberty before letting all that they may or may not have hang out for public view.

Should a 15-year-old girl be parading around in public wearing jeans cut so low that they require shaving of pubic hair or shorts that ride high enough in back to show off butt cheeks? Are parents allowing this or are these nymphets changing into their CFM attire after they leave home?

If current teenage attire can shock even a dirty old man like me, has it gone to far?

I don’t have an answer. I do find it unsettling. If I had a teenage daughter right now, I’d probably lock her away until a safer age, say about 30 or maybe even 40.


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To: one_particular_harbour
http://directory.google.com/Top/Shopping/Clothing/
141 posted on 07/09/2002 3:54:34 PM PDT by Paul Atreides
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To: goldstategop
men see no reason to value a woman and treat her like a lady if she doesn't value herself

A woman who likes sex and isn't ashamed of her sexuality doesn't value herself?

(Why am I fighting the feminists battle here? Aren't there some lurking liquour license types on FR to handle this??)

142 posted on 07/09/2002 3:54:45 PM PDT by DAnconia55
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To: goldstategop
Adults are free to do as they please of course, but the subject here is CHILDREN dressing like hookers. You don't find that problem with boys... usually males who dress like hookers ARE hookers.
143 posted on 07/09/2002 3:55:10 PM PDT by goodieD
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To: Stand Watch Listen
It's threads like this that make me glad I had only sons.
144 posted on 07/09/2002 3:55:42 PM PDT by SamAdams76
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To: goldstategop
That's why I shop online. I don't want to wear baggy rapper clothes and I don't want to look like everyone else in Tommy Hilfiger. Also, I get tired of the snotty help found in most department stores.
145 posted on 07/09/2002 3:56:38 PM PDT by Paul Atreides
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To: Stand Watch Listen
When? The 60's. That's when it started.
146 posted on 07/09/2002 3:57:47 PM PDT by Iowegian
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To: Don Myers
Many mothers buy their daughters shirts with things like "hotty" on them.

I remember getting into an argument with my daughter in a store about a low profile baseball cap she wanted. It had a winking smiley face embroidered on the front, and it said "flirt" beneath the smiley face. I refused to buy it, unless she agreed to remove the word "flirt" with a pair of scissors. I can't remember if she wanted to buy it after that or not, in retrospect, I should have been MUCH TOUGHER!!!!

I made the same daughter model a pair of shorts she argued with me about wearing for her dad. He made her go put on a longer pair.

Pitty the 10 year old still at home -- she's gonna have a much stricter Mama.

147 posted on 07/09/2002 4:02:27 PM PDT by Tuscaloosa Goldfinch
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To: DAnconia55
No one is saying women shouldn't like sex and be ashamed of their sexuality. But they don't need to like have to be over the top about it and the same goes for their impressionable daughters.
149 posted on 07/09/2002 4:12:57 PM PDT by goldstategop
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To: goodieD
I think the problem is adults like Britney Spears send just that kind of message out to children. Don't think twice about what you wear and if you look cheap in your clothes don't have a care.
150 posted on 07/09/2002 4:14:31 PM PDT by goldstategop
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To: Stand Watch Listen
MTV, movies, advertisements- all have exploited sex for it's sales potential. Pitching it to little girls is going too far IMO.

Early South Americans sacrificed virgins to improve crop yields, etc. Today, they are being sacrificed to improve what- the stock market position of a few mega clothing and entertainment companies? Screw 'em. It's no different, and this form of 'sacrifice enmasse' must stop or else you can kiss whatever ideals you might have about personal freedoms good-bye, along with the culture that once rested upon it's foundation.

Sound harsh? It should, freedom and responsibility come as a package and this 'package' is loaded with irresponsibility.

Parents and others who 'enable' this exploitation are merely unthinking sheep. A truly free-thinking society would bankrupt those who enduldge in this type of marketing, the exploitation of children.

"Sorry Calvin, got no virgins for you to sacrifice today".

151 posted on 07/09/2002 4:15:28 PM PDT by budwiesest
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To: Stand Watch Listen
My theory is that it all started with the 'Glamour Shots' at the malls.

I was amazed when friends let their 13 year old, back in 1994 get made up like a whore and have her picture taken.

I actually said to him, "so you let someone dress and make up your daughter to look like a whore?". He gave me the anquished Dad look. He didn't want it, Mom and daughter did.
152 posted on 07/09/2002 4:16:26 PM PDT by TC Rider
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To: budwiesest
Hey you reminded me of the Calvin Klein commercial back in the late 70s with a pubescent and very lovely Brooke Shields that said: "Nothing goes between me and my Calvins." A lot of people were shocked by it then. Now a days it would be considered too genteel. It shows you exactly what progress we've made in outfitting young women since then.
153 posted on 07/09/2002 4:19:06 PM PDT by goldstategop
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To: TC Rider
The Brooke Shields look no doubt.
154 posted on 07/09/2002 4:20:08 PM PDT by goldstategop
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Just when did our daughters start dressing like hookers?

Chaulk another one up to the Clinton legacy...

Emulate Monica. Snap thong. Etc.

155 posted on 07/09/2002 4:28:53 PM PDT by 69ConvertibleFirebird
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To: goldstategop
with a pubescent and very lovely Brooke Shields ..

Exactly. Wasn't she about 14 at the time? Her parents went for the buck. Klein made a (few) bucks. The cycle continues. Question for Klein: "What's next, an eight year old in a thong?" (FWIW, I think I already know the answer.)

156 posted on 07/09/2002 4:30:25 PM PDT by budwiesest
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To: budwiesest
Yeah, it was the raw sexuality that she oozed that disturbed people more than the jeans. But it put Calvin Klein on the map.
157 posted on 07/09/2002 4:32:41 PM PDT by goldstategop
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To: Rainmist
I don't know about the rest of you, but my daughter has a remarkable sense of self esteem. We haven't had the slutty let-it-all-hang out problem with her wardrobe, because she hasn't felt the need to draw attention to herself by dressing to shock. Now...if I could just get her to keep her mouth shut. Nah - not a genetic trait in my family.
158 posted on 07/09/2002 4:37:29 PM PDT by southerngrit
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To: goodieD
That reminds me of the old joke:

The "inner city" varient is:

What's the difference between a Ho and a B***h?
The Ho will only sleep with you because you got money
The B***h doesn't think you got enough money for her

159 posted on 07/09/2002 4:48:20 PM PDT by SauronOfMordor
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To: goldstategop
But it put Calvin Klein on the map.

In many ways, I think it took him off the map, so to speak. What map you ask? The map that guides us all to a certain destination where we may enjoy all of our freedoms as individuals.

Adulthood and childhood are two distinctly different conditions. Go ahead and exploit adults for all it's worth, but children are a different matter. Exploit a child and accept the risks that come with it. For some this might include upping their dental insurance.

160 posted on 07/09/2002 4:58:51 PM PDT by budwiesest
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