That was exactly the rationale behind the Clinton administration's minimizing of attacks as "isolated incidents." The result? 9/11.
How many human lives are we willing to sacrifice in "suppressing the enemy's ability to score points?"
If so much as ONE AMERICAN CITIZEN standing in line at a United Airlines counter in Manila, Philippines was gunned down by a lone, Filipino Muslim who was later gunned down, would the US State Department declare that:
America has a terrible double standard that is going to make it an enemy of many good allies. We restrain Israel for going after terrorist cells which we most certainly would have done ourselves. We call terrorism something else because Americans were not killed and it was at a foreign carrier's counter.
We are asking for it in the court of world opinion, IMHO.