But as a wife she is to subject herself to her husband. And women are physically inferior to men. They are not "equal" in either context at all.
I am sorry if you don't like it, but it's not my fault.
I didn't make men and women nor did I define their roles in marriage, God did that. I didn't make myself stronger or bigger so I could lord it over you either, God did that.
You don't have to agree, but your argument isn't with me. It's with God.
Yes, perhaps God may have made many of you physically bigger and stronger. But that didn't come with instructions to lord it over people. That choice is yours.