Yes child abuse is all too frequent. And yes even family members can be guilty of it. Westerfield may have been falsely accused. He's the defendent. He's on trial for it. It's the two sobering simps that are skating on this. Perhaps that's as it should be. I'm not convinced.
Ok, then, I guess you also saw, but chose to ignore, the portion of my post where I indicated that for months here people have been propounding theories based on NO evidence, implicating many of the VD’s swinger friends. l, too, generally don’t think much of the concept. But since lots of other people have been doing it, and partly since you were here today and since the person who posted it as I recall was someone like you a long-time FR member who occasionally but not very often posts on this thread, I brought it up. And though “IMO” I thought your “our side is using more of its brain” theory was “silly,” I was too polite to say so.