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It was not a confidence.

It was a freepmail. Such are confidences.

And yes, I used it in the thread.

Okay. There it is, then.

I should have called you a dirty old man in the thread! But it wasn't in response to the price of eggs in China, no matter how many times you post something like that.

Go on all you want about big lies, little lies, silly lies, or other excuses. Likewise, little betrayals, silly betrayals and little accusations or meaningless accusations.

Here are the facts.

I sent you a confidential freepmail.
You betrayed it by using it against me on the thread.
You lied about it.
You accused me of being a double to "the management".

Here are the facts.
I sent you a confidential freepmail.
You betrayed it by using it against me on the thread.
You lied about it.
You accused me of being a double to "the management".

Those are not facts. It is true that you told me in freepmail that you are female. (And looking it over, I can see why you don't want me to post it.) You never said that your gender was a big secret, and after I mentioned your gender in the thread you didn't seem upset. I didn't "use it against you." I don't know how you can say that. I didn't lie about anything, because -- as I've told you before -- your freepmail wasn't sent to "the management". You didn't send me any freepmail relating to the pulling of the thread. Someone else did (the person I thought was you under a different name). How in the world can you get yourself worked up over this stuff? Well, obviously you can, so I can see why the abuse button was pushed. But as I thought at the time, and as I still think, there was no reason for pulling the thread.

While we're at it, your "groping" accusation needs some further attention. I've been thinking of it as a joke, but it's not a joke, is it? It's rather serious. Can you provide some evidence for this horrible conduct? If I've insulted you because of your gender, that would be very wrong, and I'd like to know if it really happened. Otherwise, I shall assume that you are hyper-sensitive to gender-related insults, and you may tend to see evil where none exists.