I sent you a confidential freepmail.
You betrayed it by using it against me on the thread.
You lied about it.
You accused me of being a double to "the management".
Those are not facts. It is true that you told me in freepmail that you are female. (And looking it over, I can see why you don't want me to post it.) You never said that your gender was a big secret, and after I mentioned your gender in the thread you didn't seem upset. I didn't "use it against you." I don't know how you can say that. I didn't lie about anything, because -- as I've told you before -- your freepmail wasn't sent to "the management". You didn't send me any freepmail relating to the pulling of the thread. Someone else did (the person I thought was you under a different name). How in the world can you get yourself worked up over this stuff? Well, obviously you can, so I can see why the abuse button was pushed. But as I thought at the time, and as I still think, there was no reason for pulling the thread.
Is this what you mean by "ratting out"?
How in the world can you get yourself worked up over this stuff?
As far as I'm aware, and you may correct me if I'm wrong, I'm not having this conversation by myself.
I called you an "old man". I apologize. Would I push the abuse button today? No. That would make my reaction of long ago an over-reaction today. I apologize.