"Its JimRob's house, and if you don't like it, you can leave."
(not my words, that's what you're going to hear, no doubt)
we've been through this SO many times!
Then JimRob can quit taking money out of my bank account evey month. When he was running it on his own dime he could do anything he wanted. When he started running freep-a-thons and asking for our money he gave up some of that control. I have never had this done to me before, but if it happens again, I and my money will be out of here.