Posted on 03/16/2002 7:48:41 AM PST by marshmallow
He'd just completed a funeral Mass at the bustling parish over which he presides, and now, moments later, removing his collar, that pastoral demeanor quickly vanished, giving way to a bristling anger he made no effort to conceal.
The priesthood hadn't been his first vocational choice, but it continued tugging at his heart in the corporate world until he finally yielded, entering seminary a few years older than most of his colleagues.
To look at him today, well-established in his calling, riding a wave of personal popularity, few would guess how close he came to missing it all, to almost throwing in the towel prior to his ordination.
``Thanks for returning my call,'' he said. ``I have a take on what's happening now, something no one else seems anxious to get into, including the people in your business whom I'm angry at, too.
``The papers keep talking about pedophilia. That's the wrong word. The real issue here is homosexuality. It's usually heterosexuals who are pedophiles, which is a psychological disorder that has something to do with arrested development, sending them back to an age where they last felt comfortable, identifying with someone who reminds them of themselves.''
``Where are you getting this from?'' he was asked.
``From friends who are psychologists. John Geoghan? Sure, he was a pedophile. But of all the guys whose names we're reading now, no more than a couple were pedophiles, a percentage probably consistent with the general population.
``The majority of these victims were not prepubescent; they were young teens, so it had nothing to do with pedophilia. It's technically called ephebophilia, which is almost exclusively homosexual, and it isn't about comfort; it's about sex.
``The media don't like talking about this because, by and large, they have come down on the side of gay rights, the advancement of the gay agenda, so there would be an uncomfortability because, again and again, gays are saying, `We're no threat to children; that's why we should be Boy Scout leaders, why we should be teachers, why we should be able to adopt.' That's always their justification for interactions with young people.''
``Father,'' he was assured, ``you'll be branded a hater.''
``I know, so please make sure I'm well-disguised, though if I said all of this in a homily I think people in this parish would be pretty cool with it.
``But Lake Street wouldn't be too happy. The problem is, there's a subculture of gay priests and everyone knows it. I went through seminary with a lot of them and got hit on. And when I reported it, I was harassed to a point where, emotionally, it was very difficult to get ordained. I'm not the only one who had to fight to get through it; I know guys who left because of it.
``It was clear there was a cabal tacitly saying, `Don't bother reporting this stuff.' You wouldn't believe the self-justifications, like, `Well, celibacy only applies to not getting married, so since we're not getting married we can do whatever we want.' It was horrible, with a lot of intimidation, but I stayed because I felt this was what God was calling me to do; besides, if I'd walked, they'd have won.''
``Why are you telling me all this?'' he was asked.
``Because somebody has to talk about the elephant in the middle of our room. But mostly because I'm angry, not just for myself, but for friends of mine who are feeling besmirched, too. Believe me, there are wonderful priests throughout this archdiocese, celibate, faithful, loving the Church and loving God's people.
``The Church is embarrassed by this, and also concerned that if too many are weeded out there'll be a crisis in our work force because we're due to lose 70 to 80 guys through retirement in the next few years.
``My personal feeling is, I don't care; we should stand up and be counted, reaffirming the authentic faith. If this element isn't rooted out, we're going to see reoccurrences. Vocations will come back; God will take care of that.''
Fearing recrimination, he was asked why he doesn't rally those colleagues he claims to represent, perhaps issuing a joint statement, since there's strength in numbers?
``That may happen,'' he replied. ``I'm touching base with many of them because we know what needs to be said. But right now I just don't know what to do.''
You gave me NO information. You're the one who's lazy: make a claim of prostitute nuns, then don't back it up with SPECIFIC EVIDENCE.
BTW, you're still in diapers around this place, pal. When you've been here a little longer than TEN DAYS, then you can throw your weight around.
Until then, stuff the profanity.
Every group and organization with an axe to grind are coming out of the woodwork.
Keep the Faith my friend.
Interesting, but anecdotal.
I know three married Episcopal priests in the Ft. Worth diocese, and they, and their families, are ecstatic at the support they've received and in being in the Catholic Church.
Ask the priest and his wife if they would return to the Episcopalian Church.
Part IV. Of the Kingdom of Darkness. Chap xlvii. Of the Benefit that proceedeth from such Darkness...
[21] For from the time that the Bishop of Rome had gotten to be acknowledged for bishop universal, by pretense of successsion to St. Peter, their whole hiearchy (or kingdom of darkness) may be compared to the kingdom of fairies (that is, to the old wives' fables in England, concerning ghosts and spirits and the feats they play in the night). And if a man consider the original of this great ecclesiastical dominion, he will easily percieve that the Papacy is no other than the ghost of the deceased Roman empire, sitting crowned upon the grave thereof. For so did the Papacy start up on a sudden out of the ruins of that heathen empire.
[23] The fairies, in what nation soever they converse, have but one universal king, which some poets of ours call King Oberon; but the Scripture calls Beelzebub, prince of demons. The ecclesiastics likewise, in whose dominions soever they be found, acknowledge but one universal king, the Pope.
Part IV. Of the Kingdom of Darkness. Chap xlvii. Of the Benefit that proceedeth from such Darkness...
[21] For from the time that the Bishop of Rome had gotten to be acknowledged for bishop universal, by pretense of successsion to St. Peter, their whole hiearchy (or kingdom of darkness) may be compared to the kingdom of fairies (that is, to the old wives' fables in England, concerning ghosts and spirits and the feats they play in the night). And if a man consider the original of this great ecclesiastical dominion, he will easily percieve that the Papacy is no other than the ghost of the deceased Roman empire, sitting crowned upon the grave thereof. For so did the Papacy start up on a sudden out of the ruins of that heathen empire.
[23] The fairies, in what nation soever they converse, have but one universal king, which some poets of ours call King Oberon; but the Scripture calls Beelzebub, prince of demons. The ecclesiastics likewise, in whose dominions soever they be found, acknowledge but one universal king, the Pope.
It is still male/male perversion of human anatomical function and homosexual.
A 30 year old man who sleeps with a 15 year old girl is a pederast, same thing if he does it with a boy, there's nothing homosexual or heterosexual about it.
They are both rape. One is heterosexual. one is homosexual...
Interesting but anecdotal. To coin a phrase.
Here are some additional interesting anecdotes: http://www.catholic.net/rcc/Periodicals/Homiletic/June97/clergy.html.
True celibacy teaches the value of sacrifice to the laity. On the downside, I haven't heard one priest yet who could preach about REAL family life the way protestant preachers can. I know they grew up in families, but their experience as a child in a family does NOT translate to the married state.
Gotta disagree. The average priest gains immense experience in both analyzing and handling family dynamics in and through counseling so many different families. The breadth and depth of the knowledge they acquire on the job is impressive.
First day back and you're continuing your old ways. Individuals within certain dioceses lie to the public. Of course, you are aware of the actions of Archbishop Chaput in Denver concerning Marshall Gourley, as only one example, but chose to ignore it, didn't you.
Very well said. Thank you.
It is simply breathtaking how much schlock writing was produced to oil the English Protestant money-machine and the ersatz aristocracy that patronized it. What drivel! Perhaps the only more amazing thing is that some people actually consider this rubbish serious literature.
But since you're into the "antique," I'll now try to explain my point in the style of Hobbes. Something like this -- "They hath been led astray by an unholy and false nobility, rampant on their gilded thrones, all sprung from the blood-soaked garden of ruined monastery and abbey. Yea, they hath rendered unto Caesar the things of God and, lo, hath fallen prostrate before their own Mammon-God, whose name be "Bourgeois." They hath turned their face against Peter and that unity for which God Himself prayed on that doleful night of waxing evil."
Please do not again post any other Hobbes mediocrities and/or whore-of-Babylon nonsense until you can produce evidence of a single Protestant clergyman whose sanctity in any way rivals that of any pope of the last 400 years.
Gee, that story turned out nicely...
House of Lords Legalizes Cloning: Christianity Today article
Yes,I know about the eastern rite churches but I had no idea that there were so few married priests in the Latin rite. One quarter of one per cent is miniscule.Furthermore the reasons for it correlate to scripture aince when they started serving God,they were a part of the Body of Christ that was not in full union with the Catholic Church. When they found the "fullness of truth" they were treated as those early Bishops.No problem there.
And,you are correct in that celibacy is a discipline and could be modified. However,since arguing religion with non-Catholics on Free Republic I have read more scripture than I had in the past. It was this that caused me to start looking for the roots of our beliefs in the Bible. I was surprised to find a "discipline" that was so totally rooted in scripture.
I still say I am sorry that a Catholic that I so often disagree with is as articulate and informed as you. I guess thats a back handed compliment.(o-)That's a wink.
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