Do you realize that your statement also makes the case for those who find the parents suspicious? You state what you would do "IF".
People who find the parents' behavior odd are making the same type of judgment and simply applying a different observation and opinion.
Reality is that we all sit at home and watch coverage. We then come to certain conclusions and wait to see if our speculations may be validated. There is no right or wrong way to see this right now.
Everything is on the table and each of us decide in which chair to sit. Once the reliable details emerge, we may change our minds or settle where we first sat. Only time will disprove or confirm any of the thoughts expressed here.
Thoughts expressed BUMP