She could go through men like Kleenex, as long as her looks held out, though: She was short and busty, with long blonde hair and blue eyes which got brighter when she was screaming, which was often. She was extremely sexually aggressive with men. She was also a druggie, and she thought the world owed her a living.
A week after I got involved with the guy, she was trying to get ME to quit school and support her @ss through college... never mind that she had never so much as graduated from high school, but SHE was going to Stanford, whereas Cal State University was good enough for ME. Really amazing. Her favorite saying is, "You're ruining my life!"
Guys apparently thought they had found sexual nirvana, until they finally figured out how crazy and manipulative she was... or until she became pregnant. She was also very careless with the birth control, and apparently lots of men just don't ask about stuff like that. I know several men who got involved with her; none were ever the same afterwards--and not in a good way, I might add.
She was THE major factor in why I dumped that poor guy... I had no problems with the kid of hers he was raising, but I couldn't see putting up with HER until the kid turned 18. BTW, I'm still friends with the guy and the kid. He eventually married, I went to his wedding, and the ex was a thorn in the wife's side as well.
You guys who have problems with women like that--I have a lot of sympathy for you; but it also seems that men really go for women like that, at least until they know better. Women like that seem to be very successful with men. I don't know what is so great about women like that, but they never have any problem getting more suckers--er, I mean men...
Sounds like she killed the kids from the fathers who couldn't support them and kept them if there was money in it for herself.
All too true. The drama of a sexpot witch is addictive. When it's good - it's real good. But when you spend a lot of time with them - the good times are overwhelmed by the nightmare times. At 42 I've never been married - and listening to these anecdotes reminds me why. It seems that when things go sour in a marriage - all the legal and societal weapons are with the woman - and the man is completely "fugued".
But, as a strong believer in voting with your feet - and the advice from the Guess Who - I've been looking at other places around the world to be married. Although, this route definitely has some serious drawbacks of its own.
Just a few more comments, my ex has never let me have a relationship with my son. That was my punishment for not sticking with her. None of the fathers are allowed to see their kids. My ex moved every 6 months and from state to state. To this day she still uses her Mother's address. She pays the first,last month rent and security, lets it run out and it ussally takes about 6 mos. before she can get evicted.
Courts, for the most part they are a joke. I brought her to court a half dozen times getting court orders to see my kid. Literally tens of thousands of dolllars spent. The nut is in Florida now. I'm in NY.
She has had me arrested for assult. Threateened to kill me in my sleep. Had my best friend arrested. His Mom arrested.
When I did have visitation, my son went home with a rug burn on his back. Child welfare investigated it as sexual abuse.
I could write a book. May 1st, She can, in the words of John Moran," Kiss my royal irish a$$.
As for my son going to college, ha, he was never made to go to school, He is 17 still in 9th grade. Lazy, just like his MOM.