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Thanks you all for the comments, I try not to discuss my personal life on the forum, but could not resist this one time. I also thought I might get flamed pretty good for my comments.

Just a few more comments, my ex has never let me have a relationship with my son. That was my punishment for not sticking with her. None of the fathers are allowed to see their kids. My ex moved every 6 months and from state to state. To this day she still uses her Mother's address. She pays the first,last month rent and security, lets it run out and it ussally takes about 6 mos. before she can get evicted.

Courts, for the most part they are a joke. I brought her to court a half dozen times getting court orders to see my kid. Literally tens of thousands of dolllars spent. The nut is in Florida now. I'm in NY.

She has had me arrested for assult. Threateened to kill me in my sleep. Had my best friend arrested. His Mom arrested.

When I did have visitation, my son went home with a rug burn on his back. Child welfare investigated it as sexual abuse.

I could write a book. May 1st, She can, in the words of John Moran," Kiss my royal irish a$$.

As for my son going to college, ha, he was never made to go to school, He is 17 still in 9th grade. Lazy, just like his MOM.

This is really bad but unfortunately not uncommon. I have a step-brother I barely know because his psycho mother was of a similar bent. She eventually dumped him with her third husband, who raised him. Now he has very little contact with his father, is convinced his father beat him (he didn't that I ever saw) and that his "poor mother" is just the unluckiest woman in the world. And he's turned into a self-righteous little prig.

On the other hand, my father actually did beat my mother, and after she left, never paid a dime of child support and rarely visited me (he was a druggie.) So I don't believe that All Women Are Ee-vil. But some are, that's certain.

Some women are vengeful (as well as some men I know) and this is unfortunate. Thank God you got out of the marriage when you did. Child support is a small price to pay ...to be released from a life-time of hell in a union with someone like your wife. It's unfortunate that we make unwise choices in youth.... which have consequences that last for a number of years. If your son is 17... then you are almost in the clear! Look forward to the day you can put this behind you... once and for all. Cheers!

Wow.. that's pretty harsh all around.
I guess I should consider myself blessed, my psycho exwife
has never soaked me for a cent, let's me see the kids when
it is mutually convenient, and oddly enough we have become
pretty good friends. She's still a nut, of course...

my strong sympathies to you; and there is light at the end of the tunnel - hold on til next May 1!!! We'll all cheer when it's over.

But lots of men and lots of women really get treated like garbage when marriage goes down the tubes. Insanity prevails in the courts.