[Registered]

If i choose to watch a skin flick with my wife in the privacy in our bedroom as a prelude to lovemaking, where, pray tell, is the inappropriateness or undue effect?

In a healthy marriage a wife would see that your woody came from the TV and not because you had the desire to express your love for her in a physical way.

[discostu]

In a marriage that aknowledges how the real world works the wife doesn't care where the man gets his appitite, just so long as he eats at home. With or without porn the reason for the wood might or might not have anything to do with the person you're going to use it with. That's the way the human libido works.

[Labyrinthos]

In a healthy marriage a wife would see that your woody came from the TV and not because you had the desire to express your love for her in a physical way.

In a healthy marriage, both spouses are honest and open enough to admit that they are turned on by human sexuality and that they even have fantasies involving people other than their spouse.