[Pistias]

two people getting rid of all the social defense of our society. The possibility of pregnancy doesn't always enhance that, for some it greatly impedes it because of the massive layer of fear that threat adds.

If you look hard enough you may see the contradiction.

[discostu]

Pregnancy isn't a social defense, it's a physical state (for some of us it's looms as a physical threat to be feared). Social defenses are clothes, make-up, jewelry, poise, attitude, false fronts, that kind of stuff.