Always wanted to. But it takes two.
There is someone for everyone
Another platitude usually offered by someone who already has someone. Sort of like a fat guy telling a starving person that "food isn't all it's cracked up to be".
We can be larger than this life. We can maintain our sanity, our principles, our morals; and we can try to do as much good in this life as we can while overlooking as much as possible the pain and anguish that must come to us in this life if we have the richness of spirit that we should have. There will often come disappointment and sorrow. That is a part of the human condition. But what matters is how we "steer our passage through the muddy waters of this foul ocean."
We can succumb to the evil of this world, or we can try to rise above it. No matter what or how deep the hurts can be, if we can gather the strength to be strong, our spirits can sing and soar with the eagles. And that is more important than all the hurts of this world.