Ummm... Sexual distractions most certainly exist, even if they aren't having sex or dating. I don't think most teenage boys would associate with girls if it wasn't for the fact that they are a sexual distraction. You can call it what you like, but most human behaviors are predicated on sexual distraction either directly or indirectly. The point is not letting the natural state of sexual distraction drive you to do things that you wouldn't do absent it.
We live in an over sexualized culture, by reducing the sexual aspect of it you can reduce the distraction
GSA(P)