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No attempt. Sorry if you read it that way. I just thought you were saying that only women carry baggage from past sexual relationships. And I hope you didn't mean baggage like, "No it's not ok that you think foreplay is turning the lights out" is baggage.

If you read the account of my relationship with my first, obviously that's not my problem. I was referring to baggage with, ironically, sex. Or issues relating to their view of their future and relationships. One of the other problems of being with multiple partners over a short period of time, is that when someone worthy of a long term committment(ie. me) comes along, I get judged as no different than the list of losers/mediocres they've dated previously. That's not fair to me or to the woman.

Let's put it this way :My issue with female 'baggage'is mostly about their emotional damage from previous relationships/dalliances, not with how they view sex. Is that better?

I was in some theads on a different board. The title of the threads were "Things a woman would never say to a man" and vice-versa. It was fascinating to hear what these men and women had to say. Things like "Don't worry about me honey, it was enough for me just to watch you have your orgasm."