If you read the account of my relationship with my first, obviously that's not my problem. I was referring to baggage with, ironically, sex. Or issues relating to their view of their future and relationships. One of the other problems of being with multiple partners over a short period of time, is that when someone worthy of a long term committment(ie. me) comes along, I get judged as no different than the list of losers/mediocres they've dated previously. That's not fair to me or to the woman.
Let's put it this way :My issue with female 'baggage'is mostly about their emotional damage from previous relationships/dalliances, not with how they view sex. Is that better?
Much better. But remember, baggage can come from non-sexual relationships too.
You're a level headed sort...
A question: if I know that a particular woman has engaged in numerous casual sexual encounters, what might I reasonably guess about her emotional state of mind?
Let's assume that she still retains something of a feminine attitude and mixes together sex and emotion. What are the chances she would be emotionally damaged?