Never said that, but I'm writing from the perspective of a MAN, who has worked hard to be upfront, honest and optimistic about the future.
Why the attempt to always divert and deflect?
No attempt. Sorry if you read it that way. I just thought you were saying that only women carry baggage from past sexual relationships. And I hope you didn't mean baggage like, "No it's not ok that you think foreplay is turning the lights out" is baggage.