I sqeaked in under the deadline for re-enlisting in the Reserves by 26 days. I've got 2 kids and a son-in-law in uniform too. If you're fit, and not over 40, and previous active duty service, ask the Reserves if they will consider you. Those kids will need some cranky f@rts to give them a little guidance.
/john
I was going to join the Coast Guard Reserves earlier this year, then I found out I was pregnant with baby #2. So, needless to say, I have to wait until after the baby is born before I can join.
I was really bummed too about not being able to join, although I'm thrilled I'm pregnant. I stay-at-home with my daughter, so joining the Reserves would allow me to serve my country, and and still be a stay-at-home mom to my daughter.