I don't expect we can really assume this, can we Go Dub Go? Did your mom ever threaten you with a look? Did something EVER happen to a family member that served as a warning to you to 'not go there'? Threats are interesting things, GO Dub Go. Lots of them don't have to be down in concrete written words, tapes or even 'my word against yours' terms to be VERY REAL. In fact, most aren't. Gary isn't THAT stupid. But he is close.