I’m King Racist!
People where I live still regard Dale Earnhardt the greatest racist of all time. But this woman is referring to the subtle inculcation of societal mores we all pick up from surrounding people as our minds develop while growing up.
LOL...no she wasn't being that insightful at all. She was using the word as a triggering insult meant to be beyond argument. Guaranteed to turn tail and run if you dare stomping on her pre-programming with rational explanation.
But anyone who voluntarily lives their life as a slave to an Islamic husband while living in history's greatest experiment of freedom...