Wow. Where to start with all the red flags.
First of all, she's a waitress. An entry level job requiring little to no skills. 18 years in a dead end job? Sad. Secondly she lives in Boston. Next: $2900 for rent. She could live in a 4 bedroom house with a pool in Texas for that kind of money
She is still serving banquets after 18 years because she refuses to learn English so that she can wait on guests in the hotel restaurants.