[Jemian]

The help that comes for me are some dour (but young) guys and so impressed with themselves.

I use that to my advantage. I smile and compliment them on how strong they are. I emphasize how much I appreciate they way the rushed to my aid. I gush in my thanks.

It works!

Ah have always depended on the kindness of strangers.

[stylin19a]

hmmmm....did you use to work in a little cafe just the other side of the border ?