There are rules even in a war
As a vet, you know this
There are also errors in war zones. Heck, there are even rouge artillery rounds in training. Found that out at Fort Sill.
These parents need time and grace. They are being used as political pawns to be discarded when their usefulness is over.
Expect to die in a war zone. Sounds like he died with purpose. A meaningful death. Regardless of his politics, volunteers in a war zone that are caring for civilians should be considered good.
Yes know civilians are often just trying to live their lives.