[“He wanted a simple life with children and home-cooked meals,” she said.]
I went for that too. Unfortunately, every gal that I liked ran from that like a jet car on full afterburner.
Because like, parties, drinking, that’s where it’s at.....
Funny cat tiktoks too. 😂
Because like, parties, drinking, that’s where it’s at.....
I was never into parties or drinking, but in my experience being a traditional woman isn't the man magnet some on here think it is. Many (not all) American men say they want a tradwife who will stay home, but then call her a gold-digger when she does just that. They say they want a woman who dresses modestly and doesn't wear much makeup, but then chase the hard-partying clubbing types. Maybe after a few decades of this they decide they're ready to settle down, but by then their best years are behind them. They don't want to date a fat woman (which is a legitimate preference grounded in biology), but they themselves have a belly by 30. God forbid a woman want a man who is fitter than she is, the biological norm until the last few decades.
Ultimately I gave up on trying to figure out what American men want. They are enigma to me. Luckily Asian men don't give out these mixed messages.