Because like, parties, drinking, that’s where it’s at.....
I was never into parties or drinking, but in my experience being a traditional woman isn't the man magnet some on here think it is. Many (not all) American men say they want a tradwife who will stay home, but then call her a gold-digger when she does just that. They say they want a woman who dresses modestly and doesn't wear much makeup, but then chase the hard-partying clubbing types. Maybe after a few decades of this they decide they're ready to settle down, but by then their best years are behind them. They don't want to date a fat woman (which is a legitimate preference grounded in biology), but they themselves have a belly by 30. God forbid a woman want a man who is fitter than she is, the biological norm until the last few decades.
Ultimately I gave up on trying to figure out what American men want. They are enigma to me. Luckily Asian men don't give out these mixed messages.
There is no “average” man.
Some are jerks who just want to use women.
Some want to settle down, get married and have kids—and be faithful to their wives.
Women need the street smarts to be able to tell the difference—admittedly easier said than done.
groupthink much?