> For a fact. But you know where the wokeness is going...
Indeed we do :-(
My initial personal experience was quite atypical. At around age 40 I was an accomplished lead guitarist, and had the opportunity to work with a very talented female singer/songwriter/recording artist who was then in her late 20's. She was very attractive and dressed to enhance her natural beauty, not too provocatively, but very effectively.
It took a few live duo gigs for me to tumble to the fact that most of her audience and entourage was gay women for a reason. Her girlfriends were outstanding, and it was enough for me that I got to hang out with them (I was married, so anything else was off limits anyway).
It was years later that I came to understand that my experience was a rare and wonderful exception to the general case.