As a general rule both the guy and gal are responcible for the sex and for the death of their child.
And there are really only four birth control options. Barrier, hormonal, spermicide and surgical. Three of the four can be used by men.
I am talking specific products. There are at least eight specific product types for women. The pill, sponge, cervical cap, iud, a number of implants lasting various periods of time, female condom, etc. Way more options to pick one or more they would prefer. The product men have is only condoms.