I’m 6’1 and 220. I always back away from the door of a house where I don’t know the people after ringing the bell. It’s less intimidating to the person answering the door. If the man spends any time on You Tube I’m sure he’s seen plenty of young people forcing their way into peoples homes and at 10pm it’s not going to be some kid selling Girl Scout cookies.
You think an 85 yr old spends time on utube?