Absolutely.
A man should never marry a slob.
My idea of clean and my husband’s idea of clean are miles apart.
If I am sick and my husband cleans the kitchen, you can eat off the dishes. If I clean the kitchen, you can eat off the dishes, table, counters, stove top, cabinets, baseboards, switch-plates, doors, window ledges, and floors.
His focus is on utility and efficiency; I love that about him.
My focus is on keeping a clean and comfortable environment for the family. I am proud when he comes home and remarks how nice the house looks, smells, etc. It is one of my ways of showing him I love him.
I married a man. I don’t want, and have never wanted, my man to act like a woman.
::I married a man. I don’t want, and have never wanted, my man to act like a woman.::
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Well said. Same here.
I’ll never forget what my older, wiser boss said to me. We had women employees who were expected to work hard physically. I expressed my discomfort with that, and he said, “Does your mom work hard?”
Marriages should be based on a 10-year renewable contract! The possibility of being “renewed” every 10 years. No siggy? Hit the road!