Dirty dishes should not take days.
And the laundry baskets are there for a purpose. It’s no more difficult to hit one of them than drop the dirty laundry on the floor.
quit yer nagging ...
My wife fills the dishwasher with her stuff, I fill with my own, and I empty the washer in the morning. I do my own laundry simply to take the load off her. Works great! She’s not as nimble as she used to be. So I also do the cat boxes daily. Of course, I do all the electrical and mechanical fixing, perhaps not always as promptly as she wants, but it gets done. Her big projects are in the spring when she turns the yard in Eden, as well as the back deck. I have strongly encouraged the use of “please” and “thank you” which has taken hold over the past 8 months or so. Makes our interactions far more pleasant. ;-)