Should have seen a psychiatrist instead of a surgeon.
What she needed growing up was healthy mother and father role models. She needed responsible adults who she could talk to and trust.
Instead a lot of her problems were in her head and apparently she didn't have any adult she could talk to so she fell into a downward spiral of emotional confusion.
Kids need role models and adults they know they can talk to and trust. If parents aren't doing the job these kids run the risk of finding adults with agendas that will screw-up young minds.